Hace tiempo que quería empezar otro blog. En el blog "Borinquen to Blizzards" yo enfocaba en la transicion de mudarme del Caribe a un estado del noroeste de los E.U. Ahora que J y yo hemos entrado en otra etapa de la vida, es hora de cambiar el nombre y el enfoque del blog.
For some time I've wanted to start another blog. The previous blog "Borinquen to Blizzards" mostly chronicled my transition of moving from a Caribbean island to a state in the northeastern U.S. Now that J and I have entered a new stage of life, it's time to change the name and focus of the blog.
Se encuentra el nuevo blog en este website siguiente y también en en la parte arriba de esta pagina bajo el titulo.
The new blog can be found at the following website and also below the title at the top of the page.
http://walkingtogetherfollowingchrist.blogspot.com
October 22, 2012
October 11, 2012
Home with His Savior
My dad passed peacefully into the presence of the Lord shortly after 12 noon today (10/11/2012). He is already worshiping the Lamb!
Lord willing, there will be a viewing tomorrow and a funeral on Saturday.
I'm thankful that my brother T and sister A were able to safely make it in late last night to say "goodbye."
Lord willing, there will be a viewing tomorrow and a funeral on Saturday.
I'm thankful that my brother T and sister A were able to safely make it in late last night to say "goodbye."
October 10, 2012
Update on My Dad
Crown Him with many crowns, the Lamb upon His throne.
Hark! How the heavenly anthem drowns all music but its own.
Awake, my soul, and sing of Him who died for thee,
And hail Him as thy matchless King through all eternity.
Crown Him the Lord of life, who triumphed over the grave,
And rose victorious in the strife for those He came to save.
His glories now we sing, who died, and rose on high,
Who died eternal life to bring, and lives that death may die.
On Monday morning, my mom called with the news that my dad was being transferred from home to a hospice center. The hospice nurse believed my dad's organs were shutting down, and that he might have a week left to live (on earth). He had been in a great deal of pain over the weekend with a lot of abdominal distention. Now it is good to see that, in the hospice center, he is comfortable. At this point, he is no longer eating and drinking; doing so would actually be harder on his body than not. He spends almost all of his time sleeping, but I'm sure that he may very well be able to hear us. Yesterday he sometimes tried to say "I love you," and he knew that mom and I were there. Occasionally he attempts a response to a question or a greeting although today there was a little less of that.
I'm thankful that my dad is comfortable. I'm thankful to have been able to fly up here yesterday and thankful that so much family is with him during this time. I'm sure that's a comfort to him even if he can't respond, and I'm thankful that we can be here to comfort my mom as well. Most of all, I'm thankful that my dad knows Jesus and that very soon he will be going "home" to heaven.
Today my mom, Aunt C, and I were singing several hymns for my dad. When I came to this one, Crown Him with Many Crowns, I couldn't help but think how awesome and wonderful it is that my dad will soon see the risen Lord Jesus Christ in all his glory!! What a sight!! "Crown Him with many crowns, the Lamb upon His throne!!!"
John 11:25, 26
Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life; he who believes in Me will live even if he dies, 26 and everyone who lives and believes in Me will never die. Do you believe this?”
Hark! How the heavenly anthem drowns all music but its own.
Awake, my soul, and sing of Him who died for thee,
And hail Him as thy matchless King through all eternity.
Crown Him the Lord of life, who triumphed over the grave,
And rose victorious in the strife for those He came to save.
His glories now we sing, who died, and rose on high,
Who died eternal life to bring, and lives that death may die.
On Monday morning, my mom called with the news that my dad was being transferred from home to a hospice center. The hospice nurse believed my dad's organs were shutting down, and that he might have a week left to live (on earth). He had been in a great deal of pain over the weekend with a lot of abdominal distention. Now it is good to see that, in the hospice center, he is comfortable. At this point, he is no longer eating and drinking; doing so would actually be harder on his body than not. He spends almost all of his time sleeping, but I'm sure that he may very well be able to hear us. Yesterday he sometimes tried to say "I love you," and he knew that mom and I were there. Occasionally he attempts a response to a question or a greeting although today there was a little less of that.
I'm thankful that my dad is comfortable. I'm thankful to have been able to fly up here yesterday and thankful that so much family is with him during this time. I'm sure that's a comfort to him even if he can't respond, and I'm thankful that we can be here to comfort my mom as well. Most of all, I'm thankful that my dad knows Jesus and that very soon he will be going "home" to heaven.
Today my mom, Aunt C, and I were singing several hymns for my dad. When I came to this one, Crown Him with Many Crowns, I couldn't help but think how awesome and wonderful it is that my dad will soon see the risen Lord Jesus Christ in all his glory!! What a sight!! "Crown Him with many crowns, the Lamb upon His throne!!!"
John 11:25, 26
Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life; he who believes in Me will live even if he dies, 26 and everyone who lives and believes in Me will never die. Do you believe this?”
September 27, 2012
My Dad's birthday
Yesterday my dad celebrated another milestone--his birthday--and the hospice staff brought in his favorite chocolate silk pie! My dad also had a visit from his sister, his brother, and his dad who flew in from the midwest to see him. They also brought a meal and an apple pie. I was able to call my dad later in the evening and wish him a happy birthday.
Physically, however, my dad's birthday was a rather rough day for him. He was dealing with an uncomfortable situation that the hospice nurse was unable to take care of and ended up going to the ER at 10:00 p.m. last night. The hospital gave him IV fluids for dehydration and antibiotics for an infection. My parents came back home about 6:00 this morning. I am praying that he is resting more comfortably today and that my mom also will have the rest she needs after such a long night.
We are thankful, however, that so far my dad has not developed any sores from being bedridden. That is a continual prayer request for him. The nurse did say that his heels(?)--where his feet lie on the bed--have some "wear and tear," so my mom is being careful about taking care of that, but so far no sores! The swelling in the leg where he had the clot has also gone down a lot, which is a huge answer to prayer.
Please continue to pray for my parents and also for me and Justin as we consider travel plans to visit my parents at some point. Right now we're keeping in touch every day and praying for wisdom as to when to go.
Physically, however, my dad's birthday was a rather rough day for him. He was dealing with an uncomfortable situation that the hospice nurse was unable to take care of and ended up going to the ER at 10:00 p.m. last night. The hospital gave him IV fluids for dehydration and antibiotics for an infection. My parents came back home about 6:00 this morning. I am praying that he is resting more comfortably today and that my mom also will have the rest she needs after such a long night.
We are thankful, however, that so far my dad has not developed any sores from being bedridden. That is a continual prayer request for him. The nurse did say that his heels(?)--where his feet lie on the bed--have some "wear and tear," so my mom is being careful about taking care of that, but so far no sores! The swelling in the leg where he had the clot has also gone down a lot, which is a huge answer to prayer.
Please continue to pray for my parents and also for me and Justin as we consider travel plans to visit my parents at some point. Right now we're keeping in touch every day and praying for wisdom as to when to go.
September 17, 2012
Update
I've also had many conversations with my mom who has been keeping us up-to-date with what's going on. I'm so thankful for her and that she has now been able to stay home on leave from work to care for her husband. She has also expressed that she wants to enjoy him for as long as she has him.
Since the end of last week, my dad is now bedridden. He had become too weak to lift himself out of raised chairs and then too weak to stand and reposition himself to get back into bed. This does make it more challenging for my mom to care for him, so please pray that God will give her strength and that she wouldn't injure herself. She had hurt her back last week trying to help lift him out of a chair. That was improving, but please pray that she'll completely heal. My dad now has two aides each day--one that comes for a couple hours in the morning and another that comes for an hour in the afternoon. I am thankful for this help for him and also for my mom.
The doctor and nurse last week both told my parents that my dad might have a couple months yet to live (on earth) although that is just a guess (and of course God could do a miracle if He so chose). They said that if my dad were to develop other medical problems, like pneumonia or a wound, he could go sooner. I think that was a bit of a surprise for him, but he is at peace that he will be with Jesus.
Yesterday and the night before, my dad was dealing with an uncomfortable physical situation that made it very difficult for him (and for my mom) to get some sleep. Please pray that this would resolve quickly--for his comfort and for my mom, who is caring for him.
One huge answered prayer is that the oozing area he had on his leg is healing on its own and has not developed into an open wound. Thank you!
I am thankful that, for my dad and for all who believe in Christ, this earthly life is the worst we'll ever have--that our best life is ahead of us in eternity with our Lord. My family and I will miss my dad very much but we can trust that the Lord is a good and sovereign God and if we know the Lord, we will see him again.
Maybe it's true (as was mentioned to me this past week) that the Lord sometimes does good to his children by taking them home...
Since the end of last week, my dad is now bedridden. He had become too weak to lift himself out of raised chairs and then too weak to stand and reposition himself to get back into bed. This does make it more challenging for my mom to care for him, so please pray that God will give her strength and that she wouldn't injure herself. She had hurt her back last week trying to help lift him out of a chair. That was improving, but please pray that she'll completely heal. My dad now has two aides each day--one that comes for a couple hours in the morning and another that comes for an hour in the afternoon. I am thankful for this help for him and also for my mom.
The doctor and nurse last week both told my parents that my dad might have a couple months yet to live (on earth) although that is just a guess (and of course God could do a miracle if He so chose). They said that if my dad were to develop other medical problems, like pneumonia or a wound, he could go sooner. I think that was a bit of a surprise for him, but he is at peace that he will be with Jesus.
Yesterday and the night before, my dad was dealing with an uncomfortable physical situation that made it very difficult for him (and for my mom) to get some sleep. Please pray that this would resolve quickly--for his comfort and for my mom, who is caring for him.
One huge answered prayer is that the oozing area he had on his leg is healing on its own and has not developed into an open wound. Thank you!
I am thankful that, for my dad and for all who believe in Christ, this earthly life is the worst we'll ever have--that our best life is ahead of us in eternity with our Lord. My family and I will miss my dad very much but we can trust that the Lord is a good and sovereign God and if we know the Lord, we will see him again.
Maybe it's true (as was mentioned to me this past week) that the Lord sometimes does good to his children by taking them home...
Conversations
"I still want God's will, not mine" - Dad
I've been encouraged lately by conversations--encouraged that my dad, although his body is slowly failing, is still spiritually strong and thanking the Lord. Who knows, maybe there will come times of discouragement for him, but I pray that God would strengthen him and that all of us around him (whether physically or virtually through the phone lines/Internet) could be a comfort to him (and to my mom).
On one conversation, my dad expressed that "in some ways, it's [his cancer] been a blessing"--not that he would have chosen it--but that he and mom have gotten to know each other so much better through this trial. At the end of that conversation, my dad asked if he could pray for me and J--for US--even though he was the one lying in a hospital bed in my parents' living room. I turned the phone on speakerphone so that both J and I could hear my dad praying. What a beautiful moment.
On a couple conversations, Dad has wanted to sing. Once he sang "He Is Lord" and another time "I Cast All My Cares upon You." Since childhood, I've loved hearing my dad sing, and I treasure each moment that I can hear his voice. Even now, despite his fatigue, he sings out a heartfelt song of praise to God.
"Whom have I in heaven but You?
And besides You, I desire nothing on earth.
26 My flesh and my heart may fail,
But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever."
Psalm 73:25, 26
I've been encouraged lately by conversations--encouraged that my dad, although his body is slowly failing, is still spiritually strong and thanking the Lord. Who knows, maybe there will come times of discouragement for him, but I pray that God would strengthen him and that all of us around him (whether physically or virtually through the phone lines/Internet) could be a comfort to him (and to my mom).
On one conversation, my dad expressed that "in some ways, it's [his cancer] been a blessing"--not that he would have chosen it--but that he and mom have gotten to know each other so much better through this trial. At the end of that conversation, my dad asked if he could pray for me and J--for US--even though he was the one lying in a hospital bed in my parents' living room. I turned the phone on speakerphone so that both J and I could hear my dad praying. What a beautiful moment.
On a couple conversations, Dad has wanted to sing. Once he sang "He Is Lord" and another time "I Cast All My Cares upon You." Since childhood, I've loved hearing my dad sing, and I treasure each moment that I can hear his voice. Even now, despite his fatigue, he sings out a heartfelt song of praise to God.
"Whom have I in heaven but You?
And besides You, I desire nothing on earth.
26 My flesh and my heart may fail,
But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever."
Psalm 73:25, 26
September 07, 2012
Two Weddings, Generations Apart/ Dos bodas, dos diferentes generaciones
This is a picture of my Grandpa C and Grandma R's wedding. I was named after my grandma (and my mom) but never met her (my grandma). I think it's cool that her hair was done similarly to mine on her wedding day. :-)
Esta foto es de mi abuelo C y mi abuela R el dia de su boda. Mis papas me pusieron el nombre de mi abuela (que tambien es el nombre de mi mama) pero nunca pude conocer a mi abuela. Me parece chevere que nosotras, sin saber, nos peinamos el pelo muy semejante para nuestras bodas. :-)
Esta foto es de mi abuelo C y mi abuela R el dia de su boda. Mis papas me pusieron el nombre de mi abuela (que tambien es el nombre de mi mama) pero nunca pude conocer a mi abuela. Me parece chevere que nosotras, sin saber, nos peinamos el pelo muy semejante para nuestras bodas. :-)
Wedding Pictures/Fotos de la boda
It was SO hard to pick which photos to put up here. Thank you, Lord, for the wonderful day and for my sweet, wonderful husband.
Fue TAN difícil escoger las fotos! Gracias, Senor, por ese día maravilloso y por mi querido esposo.
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| Before the wedding... (My cousin M photographed the ceremony. G made the bouquets, and A did my hair. Thank you!) Antes de la boda... (Mi primo M saco fotos durante la boda. G hizo los ramos y A me peino el pelo. Gracias!) |
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| My parents Mis padres |
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| J waiting for his bride J esperando a su novia |
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| Walking down the aisle Caminando al frente |
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| Mr. B officiated the ceremony. This was probably during the message. El Senor B nos caso. Creo que esto es durante el mensaje. |
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| The vows Los votos |
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| The kiss :-) El beso :-) |
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| After lighting the unity candle, J and I prayed together for the first time as husband and wife. We had the song Household of Faith playing in the background. (The dress and the veil were made by my Aunt G.) Después de encender la vela, J y yo oramos juntos por primera vez como esposo y esposa. Se estaba tocando la canción Household of Faith. (Mi tia G hizo el traje y el velo.) |
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| The receiving line after the ceremony. These are two of my little cousins. La fila después de la ceremonia. Aquí estamos con dos primitos míos. |
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| The new couple! After the wedding, we had pictures in the chapel. La nueva pareja! Después de la boda, sacamos fotos dentro de la capilla. |
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| My family (minus my nephew P who was sick) I am so glad that t was able to come to the wedding and be in the picture with us. Mi familia (menos mi sobrinito P que estaba enfermo) Me alegro tanto de que t pudo venir a la boda y estar en la foto con nosotros. |
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| J and I with his parents--my new family J y yo con sus papas--mi nueva familia |
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| My siblings with J and me Believe it or not, I'm the oldest--just the shortest. :-D Mis hermanos y yo con J Si lo pueden creer, soy la mayor...y la mas bajita. :-D |
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| My dad and I Mi papa y yo |
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| Then J and I went outside and had more pictures taken before heading to the reception in the back. :-) Luego salimos al patio de frente para sacar mas fotos antes de ir a la recepción detras de la iglesia. :-) |
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| The cakes--made by my Aunt L. The big one was pale blue with white trim. Los bizcochos que hizo mi tía L. El grande era azul clarito con borde blanco. |
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| The groom's cake for my handsome drummer boy! El bizcocho del novio para mi guapo baterista! |
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| Cutting the cake (My cousins P and S donated the tent and tables for the reception, and many other family members and friends helped with the wedding and food. Thank you all so much!) Cortando el bizcocho (Mis primos P and S dono la tienda y las mesas para la recepcion, y muchos amigos y miembros de la familia ayudaron con la boda y la comida. Muchisimas gracias a todos!) |
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| Our hands Nuestras manos |
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| My brother T and his wife C. They were married 13 days before J and I. Behind them is Aunt C (my dad's sister) and two cousins S and J. They all traveled far to come to the wedding. Mi hermano T y su esposa C. Ellos se casaron 13 días antes que J y yo. Detrás de ellos están mi tía C (la hermana de mi papa) y dos primas S y J. Todos ellos viajaron lejos para venir a la boda. |
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| Grandma and Grandpa G with the bride and groom Mis abuelos G con los novios |
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| My cousin S caught the bouquet. Mi prima S cogio el ramo. |
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| Whoa! J went for the garter. I love my friend T's face. hehe J buscando la liga. Me encanta la cara de mi amiga T. jaja |
September 05, 2012
My Dad's Hope (and Mine)!
My hope is in the Lord
Who gave Himself for me,
And paid the price of all my sin at Calvary.
For me He died,
For me He lives,
And everlasting life and light He freely gives.
No merit of my own
His anger to suppress.
My only hope is found in Jesus’ righteousness.
And now for me He stands
Before the Father’s throne.
He shows His wounded hands and names me as His own.
His grace has planned it all,
’Tis mine but to believe,
And recognize His work of love and Christ receive.
Let me first update you on a couple things I mentioned in the last post. My dad did not have an MRI yesterday. Due to his weakness and the fact that it would be difficult for him (and my mom) to get him out of the house for the testing, they decided, at a nurse's recommendation, not to go ahead with the MRI. Also, my mom has now decided to take a leave from work in order to stay home with and care for my dad. I am praying for both of them and am touched by her display of genuine love towards him.
My daddy's hope (and mine) is in the Lord, and that's a wonderful thing. I know that if and when the Lord sees fit to bring my daddy home, he will be in a much better place. I am encouraged by my dad's desire to pray for and encourage people and by his confidence in the Lord.
To be very honest and open, times like these make you wonder sometimes if heaven's real, if God's real, if Jesus is real, if God's word is true. My sweet husband prayed for me last night that God would help me be aware of his "realness." When I look back on my and my family's life and see God's hand working in all things, He reassures me that He is real. I see how God used my little brother's special needs to bring others to himself. I remember how God showed me that he loved me and rescued me from struggles as a teenager. It's amazing how God brought my parents to Blizzard Land just at the right time. He brought L and G together. He provided care for little t. He's brought my mom near her family for support and also enabled her to be near and care for her aging father (my grandpa). He provided an apartment for A and K. He used my dad to bring me and my beloved J together from two completely different states after many years of prayer on both our parts. At the time we didn't always understand what God was doing, but He was always working.
His word also encourages me that He's real. It just makes sense like nothing else. My God is the God of Creation, a God of order and beauty. He designed the beautiful, intricate works of nature we see outside. His word makes sense of the world, of "what's wrong with it," and of the sinfulness and rebellion of mankind against Him. His word makes sense of life. This is not all there is. Life here is temporary and fleeting. Eternity is far longer and more important, and someday we will all stand before God. It would be foolish to live life for this life alone, not considering eternity ("to gain the whole world, and forfeit [your] soul"). His word tells us that the wages of our sin is death--that our rebellion against Him (our desire to live life our way and not His) separates us from Him and that, if we die in our sins, we will spend eternity away from Him suffering His wrath, which our rebellion against Him completely deserves.
His word gives hope. "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life." God's word teaches that Jesus Christ, the Eternal Son of God and yet God Himself, took on human flesh and died as a substitute for sinners, taking the wrath of God on Himself. It teaches that Jesus Christ rose from the dead, proving that He was indeed the Son of God (who He claimed to be) and that His work on behalf of sinners was complete. God's word teaches us that "whoever" turns to Jesus Christ and places their trust in Him alone as their Lord and Savior will be forgiven, will not perish (will be saved from the wrath of God that they deserved), and will have a sure hope of eternal life in heaven with their Lord.
I love how God's word is so different from how the world thinks. It just proves to me that it is true. The world would (and does) teach a salvation based on works--on "good things" we do--as if we could possibly earn God's favor. But God's word says, "For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast." The fact is that the work has already been done--Jesus Christ's death as a substitute for sinners on the cross. To insist on any other way of salvation is really just continuing to demand your own way and rebelling against God. The truth is that good works never could and never will save anyone. In God's eyes, "all our righteous deeds are like a filthy garment." But the good news is that there is a salvation--a salvation that God freely gives to all those who trust in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior and in his already finished work on the cross.
I also love how God's word changes people. When a person comes to Christ by faith, God gives them a new heart. "Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come." Before a person trusts Christ, he is continually rebelling against God--trying to live life his own way--and cannot please God. But afterwards, God changes that person's heart so that the person wants to please Him and gives that person the Holy Spirit to enable him to do so. It's not that the person will be perfect. A saved person will still struggle with sin until he/she goes to heaven. However, a person who truly knows Christ personally and believes in Him will desire to live for Him.
Thank you, Jesus, for the hope that is in You!
Here's a video of my dad from last year talking about "his Hope."
Who gave Himself for me,
And paid the price of all my sin at Calvary.
For me He died,
For me He lives,
And everlasting life and light He freely gives.
No merit of my own
His anger to suppress.
My only hope is found in Jesus’ righteousness.
And now for me He stands
Before the Father’s throne.
He shows His wounded hands and names me as His own.
His grace has planned it all,
’Tis mine but to believe,
And recognize His work of love and Christ receive.
Let me first update you on a couple things I mentioned in the last post. My dad did not have an MRI yesterday. Due to his weakness and the fact that it would be difficult for him (and my mom) to get him out of the house for the testing, they decided, at a nurse's recommendation, not to go ahead with the MRI. Also, my mom has now decided to take a leave from work in order to stay home with and care for my dad. I am praying for both of them and am touched by her display of genuine love towards him.
My daddy's hope (and mine) is in the Lord, and that's a wonderful thing. I know that if and when the Lord sees fit to bring my daddy home, he will be in a much better place. I am encouraged by my dad's desire to pray for and encourage people and by his confidence in the Lord.
To be very honest and open, times like these make you wonder sometimes if heaven's real, if God's real, if Jesus is real, if God's word is true. My sweet husband prayed for me last night that God would help me be aware of his "realness." When I look back on my and my family's life and see God's hand working in all things, He reassures me that He is real. I see how God used my little brother's special needs to bring others to himself. I remember how God showed me that he loved me and rescued me from struggles as a teenager. It's amazing how God brought my parents to Blizzard Land just at the right time. He brought L and G together. He provided care for little t. He's brought my mom near her family for support and also enabled her to be near and care for her aging father (my grandpa). He provided an apartment for A and K. He used my dad to bring me and my beloved J together from two completely different states after many years of prayer on both our parts. At the time we didn't always understand what God was doing, but He was always working.
His word also encourages me that He's real. It just makes sense like nothing else. My God is the God of Creation, a God of order and beauty. He designed the beautiful, intricate works of nature we see outside. His word makes sense of the world, of "what's wrong with it," and of the sinfulness and rebellion of mankind against Him. His word makes sense of life. This is not all there is. Life here is temporary and fleeting. Eternity is far longer and more important, and someday we will all stand before God. It would be foolish to live life for this life alone, not considering eternity ("to gain the whole world, and forfeit [your] soul"). His word tells us that the wages of our sin is death--that our rebellion against Him (our desire to live life our way and not His) separates us from Him and that, if we die in our sins, we will spend eternity away from Him suffering His wrath, which our rebellion against Him completely deserves.
His word gives hope. "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life." God's word teaches that Jesus Christ, the Eternal Son of God and yet God Himself, took on human flesh and died as a substitute for sinners, taking the wrath of God on Himself. It teaches that Jesus Christ rose from the dead, proving that He was indeed the Son of God (who He claimed to be) and that His work on behalf of sinners was complete. God's word teaches us that "whoever" turns to Jesus Christ and places their trust in Him alone as their Lord and Savior will be forgiven, will not perish (will be saved from the wrath of God that they deserved), and will have a sure hope of eternal life in heaven with their Lord.
I love how God's word is so different from how the world thinks. It just proves to me that it is true. The world would (and does) teach a salvation based on works--on "good things" we do--as if we could possibly earn God's favor. But God's word says, "For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast." The fact is that the work has already been done--Jesus Christ's death as a substitute for sinners on the cross. To insist on any other way of salvation is really just continuing to demand your own way and rebelling against God. The truth is that good works never could and never will save anyone. In God's eyes, "all our righteous deeds are like a filthy garment." But the good news is that there is a salvation--a salvation that God freely gives to all those who trust in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior and in his already finished work on the cross.
I also love how God's word changes people. When a person comes to Christ by faith, God gives them a new heart. "Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come." Before a person trusts Christ, he is continually rebelling against God--trying to live life his own way--and cannot please God. But afterwards, God changes that person's heart so that the person wants to please Him and gives that person the Holy Spirit to enable him to do so. It's not that the person will be perfect. A saved person will still struggle with sin until he/she goes to heaven. However, a person who truly knows Christ personally and believes in Him will desire to live for Him.
Thank you, Jesus, for the hope that is in You!
Here's a video of my dad from last year talking about "his Hope."
August 28, 2012
Update on My Daddy
"Know therefore that the Lord your God, He is God, the faithful God, who keeps His covenant and His lovingkindness to a thousandth generation with those who love Him and keep His commandments" (Deut. 7:9 NASB)
Although the most recent posts, have been about J's and my wedding (and there will soon be pictures as well), I wanted to take the time to update you all on my father (and family).
1. The Lord was very good in allowing my daddy to regain a measure of strength following his return home from rehab in June. He was even strong enough to make two 12-hour car rides in July in order to attend T and C's wedding (which was moved up to July 6--before J's and my wedding). He even was able to sign as a witness on their marriage license!!!
2. My dad was able to walk his daughter R (me) down the aisle at her marriage to J. Just a month or so before the wedding, his ability to do so was dubious. We are all so thankful that the Lord gave him strength, not just to walk me down the aisle, but also that he was able to enjoy some measure of recovery, family time, and a little bit of independence again.
3. We were told in June(?) after his stay in rehab. that the swelling in his brain had increased. He had previously been taken off anti-inflammatory steroids due to severe muscle weakness. Because of the brain swelling, my dad was put back on a low dose of anti-inflammatory steroids in June and did regain some strength and alertness (which, in God's providence, enabled him to go to my brother's wedding).
The doctor told us that, at some point, the steroid dosage would need to be increased again if the symptoms of swelling returned. My dad did require an increase on Aug. 10 and has recently become weaker. However, the steroids are necessary to keep the swelling down in his brain.
He has an MRI(?) scheduled for Tuesday, September 4 to see what is going on inside his brain. Please pray for him and my family.
4. My dad's left leg has been swollen since he had a blood clot in April. The concern now is that there is an area that is weeping and threatening to become an open wound. Please pray that the medications he is taking would be effective to reduce the swelling in his leg as well.
5. My little brother t will, Lord willing, be moving into a new group home on Saturday. The Lord has been very gracious and good in providing emergency care for him during this time, and we have all been praying that a good, permanent placement would open up for him. This group home is with the same agency! Although we are thankful for the Lord's answer to prayer, it is still an emotional time, especially for my parents, letting go of their youngest little boy (16). Please pray that t would also adjust well to his new home and new school district.
6. Pray for my mom--for wisdom and strength--as she is juggling work, care for my dad, care for her dad (who has Alzheimer's) a couple nights a week, and t's move. My mom works nights and is trying to figure out care for my dad at night (since he is becoming weaker). She also has more paperwork now due to t's move and new school.
7. Some other family news, on a happy note, are that A and K moved into a new apartment of their own in August!! This apartment is a huge answer to prayer for them. They are much closer to church and A's school. A also started nursing school this week.
8. J and I are doing well. We got the car registration and plates taken care of this month. :-) Last Saturday, the church had a wonderful reception for us--a great time to get to know people. Everyone was so generous and sweet. We will update and include pictures soon, Lord willing!
Although the most recent posts, have been about J's and my wedding (and there will soon be pictures as well), I wanted to take the time to update you all on my father (and family).
1. The Lord was very good in allowing my daddy to regain a measure of strength following his return home from rehab in June. He was even strong enough to make two 12-hour car rides in July in order to attend T and C's wedding (which was moved up to July 6--before J's and my wedding). He even was able to sign as a witness on their marriage license!!!
2. My dad was able to walk his daughter R (me) down the aisle at her marriage to J. Just a month or so before the wedding, his ability to do so was dubious. We are all so thankful that the Lord gave him strength, not just to walk me down the aisle, but also that he was able to enjoy some measure of recovery, family time, and a little bit of independence again.
3. We were told in June(?) after his stay in rehab. that the swelling in his brain had increased. He had previously been taken off anti-inflammatory steroids due to severe muscle weakness. Because of the brain swelling, my dad was put back on a low dose of anti-inflammatory steroids in June and did regain some strength and alertness (which, in God's providence, enabled him to go to my brother's wedding).
The doctor told us that, at some point, the steroid dosage would need to be increased again if the symptoms of swelling returned. My dad did require an increase on Aug. 10 and has recently become weaker. However, the steroids are necessary to keep the swelling down in his brain.
He has an MRI(?) scheduled for Tuesday, September 4 to see what is going on inside his brain. Please pray for him and my family.
4. My dad's left leg has been swollen since he had a blood clot in April. The concern now is that there is an area that is weeping and threatening to become an open wound. Please pray that the medications he is taking would be effective to reduce the swelling in his leg as well.
5. My little brother t will, Lord willing, be moving into a new group home on Saturday. The Lord has been very gracious and good in providing emergency care for him during this time, and we have all been praying that a good, permanent placement would open up for him. This group home is with the same agency! Although we are thankful for the Lord's answer to prayer, it is still an emotional time, especially for my parents, letting go of their youngest little boy (16). Please pray that t would also adjust well to his new home and new school district.
6. Pray for my mom--for wisdom and strength--as she is juggling work, care for my dad, care for her dad (who has Alzheimer's) a couple nights a week, and t's move. My mom works nights and is trying to figure out care for my dad at night (since he is becoming weaker). She also has more paperwork now due to t's move and new school.
7. Some other family news, on a happy note, are that A and K moved into a new apartment of their own in August!! This apartment is a huge answer to prayer for them. They are much closer to church and A's school. A also started nursing school this week.
8. J and I are doing well. We got the car registration and plates taken care of this month. :-) Last Saturday, the church had a wonderful reception for us--a great time to get to know people. Everyone was so generous and sweet. We will update and include pictures soon, Lord willing!
August 07, 2012
The Wedding in Video/ El video de nuestra boda
Here's a video recording of J's and my wedding. It's an amateur recording, but we are so thankful to have it.
The vows start about 16 minutes into the video.
Aqui esta una grabación de nuestra boda. No es profesional, pero estamos muy agradecidos por tenerla.
Los votos empiezan un poco después de 16:00 en la grabación.
We're married!!! / Nos casamos!!!
Our wedding day was beautiful. I'm so thankful for this godly man who loves me and loves Jesus more. We are still waiting for pictures of the big day, but we will most definitely upload them for everyone to see once they are ready.
One of my favorite things about being married is serving the Lord with my husband. For a long time, J has been playing guitar for the kids' program on Wednesday evenings at church. Last Wednesday, I got to sing with him. It's so fun to be able to sing and play music together for the Lord.
Nuestra boda fue bella, gracias a Dios. Estoy muy agradecida al Senor por este hombre de Dios que me ama y que ama mas a Jesucristo. Seguimos esperando las fotos de la boda, pero las subiremos una vez que estén listas.
Una de las cosas favoritas mías desde que nos casamos es poder servir al Senor con mi esposo. Desde hace mucho tiempo, J toca la guitarra para el programa de los ninos los miércoles por la noche. El miércoles pasado yo pude cantar al lado de el. Es tan divertido poder cantar y tocar instrumentos como pareja para el Senor.
I am slowly learning my way around my new hometown and am very thankful for my GPS. It has made driving a whole lot easier. Last week I was busy taking care of a lot of paperwork--a name change on my S.S. card, new car insurance, and a new driver's license. As soon as my license comes in the mail, we'll need to change the registration and title on the car to reflect the new state/name.
Some other fun things we've done have been
- taking walks
- praying together
- supporting Chick-Fil-A on Chick-Fil-A Appreciation Day (Aug. 1)
- putting together the first piece of furniture we bought together--shelving that stands above the commode
- watching some of the Olympics! (I really enjoy watching gymnastics.)
Estoy aprendiendo poco a poco a moverme en este nuevo sitio y estoy muy agradecida por mi GPS, el cual hace mucho mas fácil guiar el carro. La semana pasada estaba ocupada con muchos papeles--un cambio de nombre en mi tarjeta de seguro social, un traspaso de seguro de automóvil, y una nueva licencia de conducir. En cuanto llegue mi licencia, tendremos que cambiar la matricula y el titulo del carro para poner mi nuevo nombre y el nuevo estado.
Algunas otras cosas divertidas que hemos hecho son
- caminar juntos
- orar juntos
- apoyar a Chick-Fil-A en el 1 de agosto
- construir el primer mueble que compramos juntos--unos estantes para el bano para tener mas almacenaje
- ver las Olimpiadas (A mi me encanta ver la gimnasia!)
July 01, 2012
Girls' Night :-) / Una noche de damas :-)
Mis hermanas y mi mama se juntaron conmigo para una noche de Mary Kay. Una representante vino con sus productos y nosotras disfrutamos de unas horas de mimarnos. Probamos varios productos para el cuidado de la piel y un poquito de maquillaje. La foto salió algo borrosa, pero nosotras si nos sentíamos muy mimadas y bonitas.
My sisters and my mom got together with me for a girls' night. A Mary Kay representative came with her products, and we enjoyed a couple hours of pampering. We tried several skin care products and a little bit of makeup. The picture turned out rather blurry, but we all felt so pampered and pretty.
And by the way, it's July!!! There are just 18 days until J's and my wedding!!! Yay!!!
Ademas, ya es julio!!! Quedan solo 18 días hasta la boda de J y de mi!!!
My sisters and my mom got together with me for a girls' night. A Mary Kay representative came with her products, and we enjoyed a couple hours of pampering. We tried several skin care products and a little bit of makeup. The picture turned out rather blurry, but we all felt so pampered and pretty.
And by the way, it's July!!! There are just 18 days until J's and my wedding!!! Yay!!!
Ademas, ya es julio!!! Quedan solo 18 días hasta la boda de J y de mi!!!
30 Years/Anos
El 19 de junio mis papas cumplieron 30 anos de matrimonio. Gloria a Dios!!! El sábado 23 tuvimos una fiesta para ellos en el patio de atrás.
On June 19 my parents celebrated their 30th wedding anniversary. Praise the Lord!!! On June 23 we had a surprise party for them in the backyard.
Ha sido tan bueno tener a mi papa en casa de nuevo. Según el CT scan mas reciente, tiene mas inflamación dentro del cerebro y posiblemente tumor también. Sin embargo, el medico le receto un esteroide anti-inflamatorio y si se esta recogiendo fuerzas. Hemos estado orando que mi papa tuviera fuerza para viajar a la boda de mi hermano y C esta semana y para asistir a la boda de J y de mi. Me parece que Dios esta contestando esa oración. Gracias, Senor.
It has been so good to have my dad at home again. According to the most recent CT scan, my dad has more swelling in the brain and possibly tumor growth also. However, the doctor prescribed an anti-inflammatory steroid, and my dad is regaining strength. We have been praying that my dad would have strength to travel for T and C's wedding this week and to attend J's and my wedding. It seems that God is answering that prayer. Thank you, Lord!
June 19, 2012
While the Nations Rage...
Rich Mullins es su musico favorito.
Rich Mullins is J's favorite musician.
June 12, 2012
Wedding Showers and Birthday
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Last week my coworkers and the ladies from church blessed me with two wedding showers--one on Thursday evening and the other on Saturday. :-) I am very thankful to the Lord for these ladies and for their generosity. We had a lot of fun. My good friend A was also the one who kept track of the gifts (at the church party). It was so nice to spend that time with her (and our clothes matched too!).
Today, June 12, I turned 28 years old. We celebrated here at home with my sister A, my mama and my daddy. We ordered a meal, opened presents, and ate an ice cream pie. I'm thankful to the Lord for another year of life. Last night I opened the present that J sent me--a gorgeous set of earrings and a necklace. Thank you, beloved. I love you. Also, thank you, mom and A. And thank you, Lord, that my daddy could be here at home with us today.
May 28, 2012
My favorite drummer's newest video/ La grabacion mas reciente de mi baterista favorito
Te amo, J
I love you, J
I love you, J
May 21, 2012
Another Update.../Otra noticia
Voy a ser titi otra vez!!!!
I'm going to be an aunt again!!!
L y G están esperando otro bebe para el 10 de dic. de 2012. G ya lleva 11 semanas con 2 días de embarazo. Gloria a Dios. :-)
L and G are expecting another baby due 12/10/2012. G is now 11 weeks and 2 days along. Praise the Lord. :-)
L y G están esperando otro bebe para el 10 de dic. de 2012. G ya lleva 11 semanas con 2 días de embarazo. Gloria a Dios. :-)
L and G are expecting another baby due 12/10/2012. G is now 11 weeks and 2 days along. Praise the Lord. :-)
May 19, 2012
Update...
Whoa...it's been a while since I've written, and it's time for a much-needed update. So, here we go...
1. Wedding plans: The wedding is exactly 2 months/61 days away, and J and I are both getting SO excited! (Also, there is exactly 8 weeks until J and his parents travel up here before the wedding. J and I need to get our marriage license and his ring, etc.)
The Lord has helped with the planning. A lot of the big things have been taken care of--much of that due to some very willing and talented family members. The next big step is sending out the invitations hopefully by the end of May. :-)
J and I are also receiving premarital counseling with an elder and his wife from my church. It is their first time doing counseling over Skype! I'm so thankful for technology that allows J and I to communicate while still 600 miles away.
2. My brother T: For those who may or may not have heard through the grapevine, my brother T is also engaged to his beloved C. :-) These two lovebirds were engaged shortly after J and I, and their wedding date is Aug. 3--just 15 days after J's and my wedding. I am also looking forward to having a new sister and a new niece S (who is 5 years old). I know my brother T loves kids and will be a great dad.
3. Work: My last day is June 29, which gives me 2 1/2 weeks before the wedding to get some last-minute things done. Please pray for strength and that I can finish well. My coworkers have very sweetly planned a shower for me on June 7, which I hope will be a lot of fun.
4. My dad: Since I last wrote, my dad developed a blood clot the length of his left leg--some pieces of which broke off and traveled to his lungs. He was in the hospital for about 1 1/2 weeks being treated for the blood clots and is now currently in rehab. to regain strength. Fortunately, he was able to continue his chemotherapy pills while in rehab. although the last 12 radiation treatments had to be suspended pending further evaluation once he is released. His tentative release from rehab. is June 6 or 7.
Please pray for physical and spiritual strength for my dad. He lost a lot of muscle and needs help to do basic things. Also, please pray for good rest and strength for my mom as she cares for my dad, takes care of paperwork and talks with the doctors, and also works overnight. Another recent prayer request is that my dad has had some headaches off and on the past few days. He may need another MRI to determine the cause of them, and my mom may need to talk with the doctor at the rehab. Please pray for the Lord's wisdom regarding this new situation.
I am praying for my dad's continuing recovery but am also thankful that, whatever the future may hold, my dad knows Jesus and has a sure hope of eternity with the Lord. And I'm thankful that, whatever happens, the Lord is with us and we know that He is in control.
Psalm 73:25, 26 "Whom have I in heaven but You? And besides You, I desire nothing on earth. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever."
5. My "little" brother t: t is now taller than I am and is becoming a handsome young man. He is still living in a group home relatively close by and, as far as I know, is adjusting okay although the other kids in the home are much younger than he is. Usually he comes home once a week and last night he got to sleep over. Today he and his friends are going to the zoo. :-) Please pray for a good placement for him since my parents are looking to find a long-term/permanent home for him.
6. My sister A: I am very happy and proud of my sister A, who just completed her Bachelor's degree in psychology from Liberty University. Her years of hard work and study have paid off. A, I'm praying for you and K that the Lord will direct you both as you seek Him. Congratulations on your graduation!
1. Wedding plans: The wedding is exactly 2 months/61 days away, and J and I are both getting SO excited! (Also, there is exactly 8 weeks until J and his parents travel up here before the wedding. J and I need to get our marriage license and his ring, etc.)
The Lord has helped with the planning. A lot of the big things have been taken care of--much of that due to some very willing and talented family members. The next big step is sending out the invitations hopefully by the end of May. :-)
J and I are also receiving premarital counseling with an elder and his wife from my church. It is their first time doing counseling over Skype! I'm so thankful for technology that allows J and I to communicate while still 600 miles away.
2. My brother T: For those who may or may not have heard through the grapevine, my brother T is also engaged to his beloved C. :-) These two lovebirds were engaged shortly after J and I, and their wedding date is Aug. 3--just 15 days after J's and my wedding. I am also looking forward to having a new sister and a new niece S (who is 5 years old). I know my brother T loves kids and will be a great dad.
3. Work: My last day is June 29, which gives me 2 1/2 weeks before the wedding to get some last-minute things done. Please pray for strength and that I can finish well. My coworkers have very sweetly planned a shower for me on June 7, which I hope will be a lot of fun.
4. My dad: Since I last wrote, my dad developed a blood clot the length of his left leg--some pieces of which broke off and traveled to his lungs. He was in the hospital for about 1 1/2 weeks being treated for the blood clots and is now currently in rehab. to regain strength. Fortunately, he was able to continue his chemotherapy pills while in rehab. although the last 12 radiation treatments had to be suspended pending further evaluation once he is released. His tentative release from rehab. is June 6 or 7.
Please pray for physical and spiritual strength for my dad. He lost a lot of muscle and needs help to do basic things. Also, please pray for good rest and strength for my mom as she cares for my dad, takes care of paperwork and talks with the doctors, and also works overnight. Another recent prayer request is that my dad has had some headaches off and on the past few days. He may need another MRI to determine the cause of them, and my mom may need to talk with the doctor at the rehab. Please pray for the Lord's wisdom regarding this new situation.
I am praying for my dad's continuing recovery but am also thankful that, whatever the future may hold, my dad knows Jesus and has a sure hope of eternity with the Lord. And I'm thankful that, whatever happens, the Lord is with us and we know that He is in control.
Psalm 73:25, 26 "Whom have I in heaven but You? And besides You, I desire nothing on earth. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever."
5. My "little" brother t: t is now taller than I am and is becoming a handsome young man. He is still living in a group home relatively close by and, as far as I know, is adjusting okay although the other kids in the home are much younger than he is. Usually he comes home once a week and last night he got to sleep over. Today he and his friends are going to the zoo. :-) Please pray for a good placement for him since my parents are looking to find a long-term/permanent home for him.
6. My sister A: I am very happy and proud of my sister A, who just completed her Bachelor's degree in psychology from Liberty University. Her years of hard work and study have paid off. A, I'm praying for you and K that the Lord will direct you both as you seek Him. Congratulations on your graduation!
April 07, 2012
April 02, 2012
Two Weekends/Dos fines de semana
Para los que leen mi blog en español, espero traducir este post dentro de poco...The knight and his family were here last weekend (March 24-27). On Sunday, March 25, the knight and the princess took part in their first joint music ministry. The knight played guitar (very beautifully) while the princess sang Wonderful, Merciful Savior. Both look forward to, Lord willing, many more joint music ministries. On Sunday afternoon, the princess decided to take her knight and his parents to Niagara Falls, but TomTom, the trusty GPS, took them straight to the "odiferous" wastewater treatment plant. After some prayer and some good navigational ideas on the part of the knight and his father, they all made it to the Falls. :-) Once at the Falls, the knight-photographer took some beautiful pictures, and he and his lady joined hands for a shot of the princess's engagement ring. On the way back, the knight, who is a very chivalrous, gentle, protective soul, discovered, as he went to open the car door for his princess, that some unknown vehicle had bumped into the car in the parking lot while they had been at the Falls. After some deliberation, they decided to continue on their way (to return home before dark). The princess was thankful that nobody was in the car when it happened and that it wasn't too serious of a dent and decided to chock the dent up to adventurous memory-making.
The princess truly enjoyed getting to know her man's family--both while they were in her hometown and when she traveled to her knight's hometown the following weekend. The knight proved himself a most excellent photographer. :-) The knight and his father took the princess to Old Salem, NC, where they walked along the old buildings and learned about the Moravians who originally established a settlement there. The knight was delighted to see two beautiful, reconstructed pipe organs and to hear one of them played, and the princess enjoyed touring inside the historic structures. The princess also soaked up the wonderful NC accents and dialect, enjoyed the southern cooking made by J's grandma and mama, and gleefully toured the chicken houses on the family farm. :-) On Sunday, the princess's last day in NC, she went to her knight's home church--their future church--and enjoyed hearing him serve in music ministry there and sitting with him in the meetings.
The knight and princess's farewell was bittersweet but both look forward to their upcoming marriage. The next time they will see each other will likely be the week of their wedding. For now, they hope to marry in either July or September 2012 depending the knight's vacation time. Both are thankful to the Lord for bringing them together.
P.S. I hope to upload a video containing a slideshow of photos from the weekends but need to verify copyright first. I'll upload it once that is settled. Thanks!!!
March 29, 2012
The Knight and His Princess/El caballero y su princesa
are betrothed!/estan comprometidos!
The knight came on a mission--to ask his princess to marry him. The knight had peace from God, a plan, and a little box with a ring hidden in his guitar case. The princess had peace from God, a love for her knight, and a big smile. The princess said, "Yes!"
El caballero vino con una misión--pedirle a su princesa que se casara con el. El caballero tenia la paz de Dios, un plan, y una cajita pequeña con un anillo escondida con su guitarra. La princesa tenia la paz de Dios, un amor por su caballero, y una sonrisa grande. La princesa dijo, "Si!"
A short time before the actual proposal. :-)
Unos minutos antes que J me pidio que me casara con el. :-)
The ring and our hands
El anillo y nuestras manos
The knight came on a mission--to ask his princess to marry him. The knight had peace from God, a plan, and a little box with a ring hidden in his guitar case. The princess had peace from God, a love for her knight, and a big smile. The princess said, "Yes!"
El caballero vino con una misión--pedirle a su princesa que se casara con el. El caballero tenia la paz de Dios, un plan, y una cajita pequeña con un anillo escondida con su guitarra. La princesa tenia la paz de Dios, un amor por su caballero, y una sonrisa grande. La princesa dijo, "Si!"
A short time before the actual proposal. :-)
Unos minutos antes que J me pidio que me casara con el. :-)
The ring and our hands
El anillo y nuestras manos
Lam. 3:21-24
This I recall to my mind, therefore I have hope.
The LORD’S lovingkindnesses indeed never cease,
for His compassions never fail.
They are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness.
“The LORD is my portion,” says my soul,
“Therefore I have hope in Him.”
Esto traigo a mi corazón,
por esto tengo esperanza:
Que las misericordias del SEÑOR jamás terminan,
pues nunca fallan sus bondades;
son nuevas cada mañana; ¡grande es tu fidelidad!
El SEÑOR es mi porción--dice mi alma--por eso en El espero.
It is so good to remember that God's lovingkindness and compassions are new every morning. It gives me hope to know that God will be there whatever happens and so will his loving kindnesses and compassion to meet the needs of each day.
This verse has been comforting and strengthening to me this month as my father was diagnosed with glioblastoma multiforme, a type of aggressive, malignant brain tumor. On 3/14/2012 my daddy had brain surgery to remove the tumor. By God's grace, he was able to come home the following Tuesday and now he and my mom are in the midst of paperwork and medical appointments as he gets ready to start radiation treatments and chemotherapy.
Es tan bueno recordar que las misericordias y bondades de Dios son nuevas cada mañana. Me da esperanza saber que Dios estará aquí siempre y también estarán sus misericordias y bondades para todas las necesidades de cada dia.
Este versiculo me consolaba y daba fuerza este mes mientras recibimos la noticia que mi papa tenia glioblastoma multiforme, un cáncer del cerebro maligno y agresivo. Le operaron a mi papa el 14 de marzo para sacarle el tumor. Gracias a Dios, pudo salir el martes siguiente y ahora el y mi mama están en medio de muchos papeles, formas, y citas medicas en lo que prepare a comenzar los tratamientos de radiación y quimioterapia.
I am thankful to the Lord for His many goodnesses shown through this difficult trial and am convinced that there are as many, if not more, goodnesses as sorrows: the support and practical help of family members and friends, the prayers and encouragement of many, the good outcome of my daddy's surgery (no known impairments from the surgery although he is weak), the emergency care provided for t, and more...
I truly believe that, even in the midst of difficulty, God's goodnesses are there: Psalm 27:13.
Estoy muy agradecida al Senor por Sus muchas bondades en medio de esta gran dificultad y estoy convencida de que hay tantas bondades (o aun mas) como tristezas: el apoyo y la ayuda practica de familia y amigos, las oraciones y tarjetas de muchos, el buen resultado de la operación de mi papa (salió si ningún impedimento conocido aunque si esta muy débil), el cuidado provisto para t, y mas...
Yo verdaderamente creo que, aun en medio de las dificultades, las bondades de Dios están presentes: Salmo 27:13.
In the meantime, we would appreciate your prayers. As mentioned, my dad's legs are very weak. The doctor feels that might be due to a medication and has decreased the dosage. However, that medication also keeps swelling down in the brain, so please pray that there would be a good balance so that my dad can be stronger and not have trouble with swelling. Also pray for mom, who is home caring for my dad and filling out lots of papers. It's so good to see my parents' committed love for each other in action. Pray for all of us as, no doubt, this is an emotional time, but God is there! I am encouraged by my dad's positive attitude and pray that God will sustain him, my mom, and us as we navigate this new world of cancer and treatments.
Entretanto, apreciaríamos sus oraciones. Como ya mencione, mi papa esta muy débil de las piernas. El medico cree que es por uno de los medicamentos y ha bajado el dosaje. Sin embargo, ese medicamento controla la inflamación en el cerebro, así que oren por favor que encuentren un buen balance para que mi papa se sienta mas fuerte pero tampoco tenga problemas de inflamación dentro del cerebro. También, oren por mi mama que esta cuidando a mi papa y llenando muchas formas. Es tan bueno ver ese amor dedicado en acción. Oren por todos nosotros que, sin duda, este es un momento sentimental, pero Dios esta aquí! Me anima la actitud positiva de mi papa y oro que Dios nos sostenga a el, a mi mama, y a todos nosotros mientras que naveguemos este nuevo mundo del cáncer y de los tratamientos.
The LORD’S lovingkindnesses indeed never cease,
for His compassions never fail.
They are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness.
“The LORD is my portion,” says my soul,
“Therefore I have hope in Him.”
Esto traigo a mi corazón,
por esto tengo esperanza:
Que las misericordias del SEÑOR jamás terminan,
pues nunca fallan sus bondades;
son nuevas cada mañana; ¡grande es tu fidelidad!
El SEÑOR es mi porción--dice mi alma--por eso en El espero.
It is so good to remember that God's lovingkindness and compassions are new every morning. It gives me hope to know that God will be there whatever happens and so will his loving kindnesses and compassion to meet the needs of each day.
This verse has been comforting and strengthening to me this month as my father was diagnosed with glioblastoma multiforme, a type of aggressive, malignant brain tumor. On 3/14/2012 my daddy had brain surgery to remove the tumor. By God's grace, he was able to come home the following Tuesday and now he and my mom are in the midst of paperwork and medical appointments as he gets ready to start radiation treatments and chemotherapy.
Es tan bueno recordar que las misericordias y bondades de Dios son nuevas cada mañana. Me da esperanza saber que Dios estará aquí siempre y también estarán sus misericordias y bondades para todas las necesidades de cada dia.
Este versiculo me consolaba y daba fuerza este mes mientras recibimos la noticia que mi papa tenia glioblastoma multiforme, un cáncer del cerebro maligno y agresivo. Le operaron a mi papa el 14 de marzo para sacarle el tumor. Gracias a Dios, pudo salir el martes siguiente y ahora el y mi mama están en medio de muchos papeles, formas, y citas medicas en lo que prepare a comenzar los tratamientos de radiación y quimioterapia.
I am thankful to the Lord for His many goodnesses shown through this difficult trial and am convinced that there are as many, if not more, goodnesses as sorrows: the support and practical help of family members and friends, the prayers and encouragement of many, the good outcome of my daddy's surgery (no known impairments from the surgery although he is weak), the emergency care provided for t, and more...
I truly believe that, even in the midst of difficulty, God's goodnesses are there: Psalm 27:13.
Estoy muy agradecida al Senor por Sus muchas bondades en medio de esta gran dificultad y estoy convencida de que hay tantas bondades (o aun mas) como tristezas: el apoyo y la ayuda practica de familia y amigos, las oraciones y tarjetas de muchos, el buen resultado de la operación de mi papa (salió si ningún impedimento conocido aunque si esta muy débil), el cuidado provisto para t, y mas...
Yo verdaderamente creo que, aun en medio de las dificultades, las bondades de Dios están presentes: Salmo 27:13.
In the meantime, we would appreciate your prayers. As mentioned, my dad's legs are very weak. The doctor feels that might be due to a medication and has decreased the dosage. However, that medication also keeps swelling down in the brain, so please pray that there would be a good balance so that my dad can be stronger and not have trouble with swelling. Also pray for mom, who is home caring for my dad and filling out lots of papers. It's so good to see my parents' committed love for each other in action. Pray for all of us as, no doubt, this is an emotional time, but God is there! I am encouraged by my dad's positive attitude and pray that God will sustain him, my mom, and us as we navigate this new world of cancer and treatments.
Entretanto, apreciaríamos sus oraciones. Como ya mencione, mi papa esta muy débil de las piernas. El medico cree que es por uno de los medicamentos y ha bajado el dosaje. Sin embargo, ese medicamento controla la inflamación en el cerebro, así que oren por favor que encuentren un buen balance para que mi papa se sienta mas fuerte pero tampoco tenga problemas de inflamación dentro del cerebro. También, oren por mi mama que esta cuidando a mi papa y llenando muchas formas. Es tan bueno ver ese amor dedicado en acción. Oren por todos nosotros que, sin duda, este es un momento sentimental, pero Dios esta aquí! Me anima la actitud positiva de mi papa y oro que Dios nos sostenga a el, a mi mama, y a todos nosotros mientras que naveguemos este nuevo mundo del cáncer y de los tratamientos.
March 11, 2012
My New Skirt/Mi nueva falda
Recently, I found a great pattern for a comfy, feminine skirt online, and here's the result. I mostly went by the instructions found on this website but kept the skirt long and added large triangle wedges of fabric both front and back.It wasn't that expensive to make either--a pair of stretch blue jeans from the thrift store, a patterned sheet (for the wedges) from the thrift store, and a 6-inch piece of denim and two gold D-rings from Joanne fabrics to make the sash. I made the fabric wedges with a double layer of the sheet to eliminate the need for a slip.
Hace poco, encontré un patrón buenísimo para coser una falda cómoda y femenina y aqui esta el resultado! Mayormente seguí las instrucciones en este website pero deje larga la falda y cosí unos triángulos grandes de tela en la parte de frente y de atras.
No fue muy caro tampoco--unos mahones de la tienda de segunda mano, una sabana (para los triángulos de tela) de la tienda de segunda mano, y una pieza de tela de mahón y dos "D-rings" de Joanne Fabrics para coser la correa. Hice los triángulos de dos capas de tela para eliminar la necesidad de una combinación.
February 16, 2012
Valentine's Day/El dia de amor y amistad
Este ano tuve un día de amor y amistad bien especial. Una razón fue que, por la primera vez, tuve mi propio "San Valentin"--un novio--con quien celebrarlo. Pero antes de llegar a esa parte del post, otra razón especial es que pude pasar el día antes (el 13 de febrero) con mi familia. :-)
This year I had a very special Valentine's Day. One reason was that, for the very first time, I had my own "Saint Valentine"--a boyfriend--to celebrate it with. But before we get to that part of the post, another very special reason is that I got to spend the day before (Feb. 13) with my family. :-)
Queria sorprenderles a mi familia con una comida de San Valentin y decidi a cocinar quesoburguesas de pavo molido en forma de corazones. Salieron muy ricas! Tambien, me alegro mucho encontrar un melon, el cual pique en forma de corazones también. Fue divertido hacerles sentirse muy queridos a mis papas y a t.
I wanted to surprise my family with a Valentine's meal and decided to cook heart-shaped turkey cheeseburgers. They turned out so good! I was also quite happy to find a watermelon, which I cut into little hearts as well. It was fun to make my parents and t feel special.
Aquí estoy con mi novio--mi San Valentin--aunque saquemos esta foto unos días antes del día de amor y amistad. Estoy muy agradecida a Dios por el, por el líder espiritual que es, por su paciencia y amor, y por el video chat de Facebook que da la oportunidad de hablar cara a cara. Estoy muy emocionada por la ultima semana de marzo cuando, por fin, si Dios quiere, vayamos a visitar y vernos uno a otro (y ver a nuestras familias).
Here I am with my boyfriend--my Valentine--even though we took this picture some days before Valentine's Day. I am very thankful to God for him, for his spiritual leadership, for his patience and love, and for Facebook video chat that allows us to speak face to face. I'm also excited and looking forward to the last week in March when finally, Lord willing, we'll get to visit and see each other (and each other's families) in person.
Intercambiamos regalitos y los abrimos juntos por video chat. J, mi novio, había enviado su paquete a fines de enero, así que fue un ejercicio de paciencia para esperar el 14 de febrero. :-) Fue un regalo riquísimo y delicioso. Me parece que J me conoce muy bien y conoce mi antojo de siempre por el chocolate. Gracias, querido.
We exchanged gifts and opened them together on video chat. J, my boyfriend, had sent his package at the end of January, so it was an exercise in patience to wait until Feb. 14. :-) Must I say that it was a very delicious gift. It seems that J knows me well and my frequent craving for chocolate. Thank you, my sweetheart.
el oso peluche que me envio J. El corazón que el oso esta aguantando dice, "Te amo."
the stuffed teddy bear that J sent me. The bear's heart says, "I love you."
This year I had a very special Valentine's Day. One reason was that, for the very first time, I had my own "Saint Valentine"--a boyfriend--to celebrate it with. But before we get to that part of the post, another very special reason is that I got to spend the day before (Feb. 13) with my family. :-)
Queria sorprenderles a mi familia con una comida de San Valentin y decidi a cocinar quesoburguesas de pavo molido en forma de corazones. Salieron muy ricas! Tambien, me alegro mucho encontrar un melon, el cual pique en forma de corazones también. Fue divertido hacerles sentirse muy queridos a mis papas y a t.
I wanted to surprise my family with a Valentine's meal and decided to cook heart-shaped turkey cheeseburgers. They turned out so good! I was also quite happy to find a watermelon, which I cut into little hearts as well. It was fun to make my parents and t feel special.
Aquí estoy con mi novio--mi San Valentin--aunque saquemos esta foto unos días antes del día de amor y amistad. Estoy muy agradecida a Dios por el, por el líder espiritual que es, por su paciencia y amor, y por el video chat de Facebook que da la oportunidad de hablar cara a cara. Estoy muy emocionada por la ultima semana de marzo cuando, por fin, si Dios quiere, vayamos a visitar y vernos uno a otro (y ver a nuestras familias).
Here I am with my boyfriend--my Valentine--even though we took this picture some days before Valentine's Day. I am very thankful to God for him, for his spiritual leadership, for his patience and love, and for Facebook video chat that allows us to speak face to face. I'm also excited and looking forward to the last week in March when finally, Lord willing, we'll get to visit and see each other (and each other's families) in person.
Intercambiamos regalitos y los abrimos juntos por video chat. J, mi novio, había enviado su paquete a fines de enero, así que fue un ejercicio de paciencia para esperar el 14 de febrero. :-) Fue un regalo riquísimo y delicioso. Me parece que J me conoce muy bien y conoce mi antojo de siempre por el chocolate. Gracias, querido.
We exchanged gifts and opened them together on video chat. J, my boyfriend, had sent his package at the end of January, so it was an exercise in patience to wait until Feb. 14. :-) Must I say that it was a very delicious gift. It seems that J knows me well and my frequent craving for chocolate. Thank you, my sweetheart.
el oso peluche que me envio J. El corazón que el oso esta aguantando dice, "Te amo."
the stuffed teddy bear that J sent me. The bear's heart says, "I love you."
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